FAQ
Frequently asked questions
Quick answers to the things people ask most.
Safety & trust
Is Aperko safe?
Safety is our foundation, not an add-on. Meetings always take place in public venues, every member is verified before they appear, you get a check-in after the meeting starts, you can share details with a friend, and there's a help button anytime. Aperko doesn't rescue you on its own — it connects you with the venue, your trusted contact, and the emergency line.
Where do the meetings take place?
Always in a public place — at vetted partner venues where the staff know it's an Aperko meeting. No "come over to mine." A public space with witnesses is the strongest protection.
Are members verified?
Yes. Everyone goes through identity and age verification (18+), and every profile is approved before it's ever shown to anyone. Men also record a short voice intro. The point is that there's a real, vetted person on the other side.
Can a stranger see my photo or profile? Will I show up on Google?
No. Profiles and photos are visible only to signed-in, verified members inside the app. They are not public, they're nowhere on the open internet, and search engines can't find or index them. Photos are also never sent to WhatsApp.
What if I feel unsafe during a meeting?
The app has a button that discreetly alerts the venue staff, your contact, and us, and shares your location. After the meeting starts we also ask "are you OK?" — if you don't reply, we notify your contact. In an emergency, always call 112.
How it works
How does Aperko work?
In a regular evening window (pilot in Prague) you turn on availability. Men browse anonymous cards of women and show interest; the woman then chooses among the men interested in her. When she picks someone, she's revealed to him, he confirms — and you meet the same evening at a partner venue. No swiping, no weeks of chatting.
Who chooses whom?
The woman chooses. Men signal interest, but the final say — who she meets tonight — is always hers.
When do I see the other person's name and photo?
Women are anonymous in the catalog (age, neighborhood, a few interests). Name and photo are revealed only to the man the woman herself selects. Men are fully visible to women. The woman stays in full control of who gets to see her.
For women
Is it really free for women?
Yes, Aperko is free for women. The service is paid for by men through credits; women pay nothing.
Do I have to meet someone when I turn on availability?
No. Availability simply means "I'm open to meeting tonight." Whether and whom you choose is entirely up to you — no one pushes you into anything.
For men & payments
How much does it cost and how do credits work?
Men top up credits in advance (packages from 179 CZK). A credit is charged only for a meeting that actually happens — not for browsing or for showing interest. Unused credits are valid for 90 days.
What exactly am I paying for?
A credit is access to the Aperko service (matching, coordination, the safety layer) — not a payment for a specific person. No money flows between users.
What if the meeting doesn't happen or the other person doesn't show up?
A credit is charged only after a meeting takes place. If the other person doesn't come, your credit stays. If you close your account, we refund unused paid credits (they're forfeited if you're removed for breaking the rules). Details are in the Terms.
Account & privacy
What data do you keep, and can I delete my account?
We collect only the necessary minimum — location only at the neighborhood level, and we don't store ID documents (just a "verified" flag + age). You can delete your account and data anytime (right to erasure); inactive profiles are removed after about 6 months. Details in the Privacy Policy.
How do I sign in?
With your phone number and a one-time code — no password. Your number is used for sign-in and notifications and is never visible to another user.
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